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You have told these stories a hundred times. Here is how to write them down.

A short, practical guide to starting your memoir. Written by someone who writes them for founders and CEOs for a living.

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What is inside

Ten chapters. None of them about grammar.

This is about the parts that actually stop people: where to start, what to leave out, and how to write about people who are still alive.

01Why you are writing it, and how to tell if you should not
02Do not start at the beginning
03Five questions to ask before you write a word
04How to remember more than you think you can
05What actually goes in a chapter
06Writing about people who are still alive
07What to leave out
08Why your own voice sounds wrong at first
09The first draft is meant to be bad
10When to get help, and what kind

Five questions to ask before you write a word

Chapter three · in full

Most people begin a memoir by trying to remember their life in order. It does not work. Memory is not a filing cabinet. It is a room you walk into in the dark, and the way in is always a question, never a date.

These are five of the questions I ask a client on our first calls. Sit with one at a time. Write the answer badly and at length. You are not writing the book yet. You are finding out where it is.

01What did your parents do for a living?Not to be sentimental. You learned what work is by watching them, and that is usually where your idea of success came from.
02Who did you call the night it nearly fell apart?Every leader has that night. The person you called tells the reader more about you than any figure in the annual report.
03Which decision would you take back?Regret is the only reliable test of what you actually believe. A memoir with no regret in it reads as an advertisement.
04What did the work cost you at home?The hardest question here, and the one readers remember. You can write it and still choose not to publish it.
05What do you still not understand about your own life?Answer this one last. Books that know all their answers at the start are not worth reading, and are not worth writing either.

If one of these made you uncomfortable, that is the chapter to write first.

Who wrote this

I write other people's books.

I am a ghostwriter. Founders, CEOs and global heads come to me with a life they have never written down, and leave with a finished book that has their name on it and not mine.

I cannot show you any of them. Every project is under an NDA, and that is the point of hiring me. So instead, here is how the work is actually done.

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Merlin Manrold
Merlin Manrold

Merlin Manrold

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Memoir writer

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Merlin Manrold
Merlin Manrold

Merlin Manrold

Book ghostwriter

Memoir writer

Every project is under NDA. No client is ever named.Home

© 2026 Merlin Manrold. All rights reserved.

Merlin Manrold
Merlin Manrold

Merlin Manrold

Book ghostwriter

Memoir writer

Every project is under NDA. No client is ever named.Home

© 2026 Merlin Manrold. All rights reserved.